I am learning to appreciate the small gestures. Those things that most people wouldn’t even pay attention to. To hear what someone is actually saying instead of being so focused on getting them to say something, the way I want them to say it. There is a beauty in this realization. A comfort that makes me smile. I may not be going about this the way the rest of the world does. It may not make sense to those that are standing on the outside looking in. I know there are those that think I am crazy or that this is crazy. But it works. It is opening my heart and my mind. And both have been closed for so long…..I am going to grow old with this man. And he is going to grow old with me. Watch.
